In mainstream American culture, we don't place a ton of value on the extended family. When sons or daughters marry, they move out of the house and start their own family. Sometimes thousands of miles away from their parents. In Neville's culture, when a son marries, his wife joins him at his parent's house. And they live together, with the in-laws, for a period of time. Sometimes it is a couple of years. Sometimes it is for life.
When we had Darius, we decided to live with Neville's mother. I was very, very nervous about the situation. It was so different from what I was accustomed to in my culture. But I'll tell you, it was one of the best decisions I think we've ever made as a couple. His mother and I have become the best of friends. And having an extra pair of hands around the house is a God send.
So this week's photo is in honor of my wonderful mother-in-law. She is such a blessing. To see her having fun with her grandson every day. To see Darius loving his grandma every day. It is so worth it. Plus, she like to wash dishes and fold laundry. It just can't get any better.
